Touch of Sharadia

                                                                        Touch of Sharadia

Hi friends!! After a long time I m here to write again…I guess more than a month…Really feeling bad as couldn’t post anything…Too much work pressure that too long 9-10 hrs dealing with computer …and after that really don’t feel like sitting again in front of PC… Anyways… It’s October month and the month of festivals..Just love it...And for a Bengali Citizen the most thrilling and exciting is to celebrate Durga Puja in Grand way…Though this time Puja timing is quite late still it’s not much far from now… Just few days and then YIPPPPPPPPPPPPPPY….Time to say “Subho Saradiya” will come… ☺☺

  

“Sarat Kaal”--the season of festivals…The mesmerizing, floating, carefree clouds & the hide and seek game of sunlight through those clouds are just flaunting… “Kaash phool “another object of nature which smoothens Bengali’s mind as it reminds us to get ready for welcoming Goddess.Ma Durga...The unprepared Goddess idols at Kumortuli,the  unfinished Pandals around the city excite us and tell us that yes Ma is coming soon..But this feeling is only better because as soon as the Festival starts, days pass like Rajdhani Express and make us sad…

Sometimes I really do feel like going to some village side area where I can enjoy a Bonedi Barir Durga Pujo…From Mahalaya to Dashami totally 10 days just watching those floating clouds and the gangs of Kaash Phool, dancing to the beats of Dhaak… just to celebrate a Complete Bangali Durga Pujo… I am very much prone to thinking, thinking and thinking. These little little instances of nature just blow my mind but unfortunately it’s impossible to spend long time over there practically…Still hope for it to happen sometimes in my Life.Anyways Let me share my Childhood Durga Puja Holidays and the scenario of the Tilottoma Mahanagari Kolkata…

I am highly fun loving girl from childhood, and I get too excited just thinking of having fun and if that is of the ultimate festive season for having fun then.”Kono kotha hobe na”...Not only me All the Bengalis do the same behavior like I do in this season, whether in West Bengal or outside anywhere in the world. The preparation starts from 2 months before the Puja and now the things are totally running fast...In everywhere from the media to magazines only about Puja Puja and Puja…Different shows based upon this and many more things.. ☺

In these long 23 years of my life I have tasted different flavors of Durga Puja …during childhood the taste was so unique which I miss much… Then people were not much concerned about pandal hopping like recent times. It has become a rage now to hop Pandals from Chaturthi to Ekadashi … Actually we Bengalis don’t want to leave this enjoyment soon. So we stretch the time from both starting and ending ☺ …In childhood Puja means long holiday of one month, several dresses from loved ones (definitely used to have competition with friends regarding this [wink]),hopping pandals with ma and papa everyday from Saptami to Dashami ☺,having a tough game competition with local friends with Gun and Cap (cracker) and humming to the tunes of Pujo numbers released by Kumar Sanu and few R.D –Asha Bengali hit adhunik songs.. Then enjoyment with relatives and all … But now neither I get long one month holiday nor have that excitement of counting dresses with friends ( kiddish)..But it doesn’t mean that I don’t take any preparations at all...Already it has been started…Puja days I spend with my family and friends… Have a jomati adda,whole night pandal hopping,eating like hell from outside [specially junk food] .. and many more..OH !! I just can’t wait .. only 17 days more…

Hey!! Bloggers those who stay outside of Kolkata and never got a chance to celebrate Durga Puja with Bengalis, I do request and invite them to come once to Kolkata and to have a glance of this world famous Grand Durga Puja… love you  Bye ….

                                                                                               ©Debarati Datta

                                                                                                                     

Oh !! Mother

                                                                            Oh !! Mother

" Mother ... (Ma) " who we can't define in anyway.. From childhood I have shared a great bonding with my mother.She was my first teacher and went on being like that throughout my school life..I was naughty enough to torture,annoy her every time..She has been my friend,philosopher and guide all over the years..But the tragedy happened when for the first time I went far away from her for 4 long years during my college days..Days and Sights she called me up to make me feel that she was all along with me ... Sometimes it happens that we,children find our mother's advice so annoying and boring as they always poke us and warn us for every thing..It happened and still sometimes happens with me too.. But the later time when We think and realize the fact we get them right.. Mother's are mothers..they can easily know our emotions,our feeling though we hide that from them..They laugh when we are happy, they cry when we are sad.. They are Mothers... the living Goddess of Earth ... I love you ma.

Oh !! Mother

I am writing you this poetic letter

to open up my bundle of thoughts

which I feel every time whether u r near or not

but can not express right in front ..

Thus this is the only way, I have found out

which actually can not come out of my mouth

you may feel surprised after reading this

I hope you will like it,but it's a humble request

NO tears please !!!

Twenty Three years and nine pre months

you have kept me beneath your shadow and your warmth

That is really hard to describe either by expression or by any terms...

Mother's are just another portrait of Goddess

Thus you were,you are and will be always..

From being the introducer to the Teacher

Every time I have got you as my guide,friend and philosopher..

I still remember my school days

when you used to manage every single duties

as a working woman and as an home maker in several ways..

Whomever I am today,

 is just your struggle and your shadow of  magical ray..

Oh !! mother

I still remember

the day when you first took me to school...

you were standing outside telling me to not cry

while they were taking me in .. away from you ...

I dwell upon the days when my exam results used to come out

I used to be scared and feared much to ask you again and again

"Ma What Will Happen ??? "

You were the one to hold my hands and smile at my face without showing the lines of doubt..

Hats off !! to you and your dedication

that you have been spending on me without any expectation

I fought with you and annoyed you over time to time

But Mother !!! you didn't bother

to come across and make me feel better..

I love the way you cuddle up with me

when I sleep too deep

can feel the way you call me up

with love and anguish ..

Oh!! mother
there are plenty of memories to gather

which will not end up here ..

All these are stitched in their own way

right bottom of my heart

which can never fade and never go apart..

I was your small girl 

would like to be the same forever...

Last words which I would like to share

with the strike of  a soft touch 
that I LOVE YOU so much 

                                                                                                                   ©Debarati Datta

The Magical Madhuri

                                                           The Magical Madhuri 


"Ding Dang Ding ... Ding Dang Ding Dang Ding Dang .... Ek Do Tin .... " and that's The Madhuri Dixit. 

Vast it is to describe her and to write about the ultimate muse of Mr.M.F Hussain..She can be described  in my way by just one line that is I just love her... Why my post title is "The Magical Madhuri " ?? Because I couldn't think of some other name or title other than this ... as this came automatically in my mind.. and obviously it's not the fault of my mind or my brain..Actually Madhuri Dixit--the name itself made me to do so..

Ahh !! I grew up watching Madhuri. Super hit Muqabla which was the only  program to play all Bollywood songs at that time, used to play always Madhuri's numbers...Whatever from Dhak Dhak Karne Laga,Ek Do Teen,Mera Piya Ghar,Chane ke Khet main,Choli ke piche,Sajan songs,Didi tera dewar and other Hum aapke hain kaun songs blah blah blah !!! getting tired of taking all the names....The whole 90's went like this only.I still remember me and my elder sister always used to copy her dance in front of mirror especially mera piya ghar and ek do teen most of the times and  yes tell me any girl name who loves dancing and didn't do the same ???I find very less people to dislike madhuri..Her aura,magic blows everyone's mind ...

When I was a kid didn't use to understand much about classical,didn't use to notice her expression which is priceless and which can not be described by words..As I started getting into classical dance and started knowing about perfection,hand mudras ,body gestures,eye movements and  especially getting totally into the character.. I simply started respecting her.. What I have learnt from her is that jaisa dance waise expression and totally dub jana hain bass !! I was amazed when she danced pure Kathak during her pregnancy with the heavy weighted ghaghra in Kahen Ched Ched Mohey ... and what an expression ... I think she can tell her feelings with only her facial expression.. no need to have a speech or hand gestures ... and of course her billion dollar smile is just so amazing ... 

For me she was the last typical Bollywood diva to dance and act in total filmy style..Her ada,latkas jhatkas were mind blowing.. I do watch Jhalak Dikhla Jaa just because of her ..I don't miss at all the dance moves of the week by her..She looks like just a calender art dancing in her own way..Saroj Khan's favorite Mrs.Nene keeps on mesmerizing all the audience just like the way she used to do before..Whenever I dance any dance number whether it is classical or creative whatever I always think first if Madhuri Dixit would have done this how could it be ??? and the same I draw in my mind and try to follow.I try to keep the perfect posture,the grace on face and the well finished hand gesture.. 

these above pictures are very less to expose her persona ..At last I really would like to say " main Madhuri Dixit banna chahti hu "

Happy Friendship Day

                       

                                                               Happy Friendship Day... 

                                                                                                    .... 5th August,2012

Umm... Friendship Day.. a day dedicated to friends .... Really had never celebrated it in such a manner... except tieng friendship band in hand..I became familiar with this idea when Kuch Kuch Hota Hain released.. I was a kid then ... So every year Friendship day starts with texting everyone and tagging in Facebook with few friendship posts.. Yesterday also it was going in same way..But yesterday something was so different and exciting.. It started in a very haphazard way and ended up with lots of fun .. Me and my friend Arunima  decided to watch Ice Age 4 first,that too morning show..But God had some other plan for us.. Due to transport problem could not catch the movie time of Ice Age 4..At last decided to watch Jism-2 ,knowingly it as worst movie of this week... Again surprise and tension...Thought Sunday was going to get wasted as so much troubles we were getting through .We didn't know that in multiplexes there was a rule to carry our age proof to watch that movie ..When saw the notice board we deliberately thought .." What kind of movie we are going to watch ?? that without age proof we won't be allowed ?? ughhhh " 

Now arranging our age proof was so much of fun .. It was nothing but Indian Railway Monthly card.. that too for me it was two years older..backdated one.. At last got the ticket and was ready to watch that horrible movie .... 

As the movie started we both started to pass comments and laugh in each and every scene... and What extra should I say about the movie ?? Movie was having a weak story-line and sunny's acting was too horrible to describe..But who cared for those...We just enjoyed the movie as much as possible ... And really Hopefully didn't watch Ice Age 4 else we would have been busy with the movie rather than enjoying ourselves .. and really for fun having a big gang is not necessary always .. 

                        ♫ ♫ ♫ ♫ ♫ Har Ek Friend Zaroori Hota Hain ♫ ♫ ♫ ♫ ♫

                                                                                                                  ©Debarati Datta

Bollywood says NO to Talent ???

                                         Bollywood says NO to Talent ???

                                                                       .....I am just writing about commercial side of Bollywood,not dedicating this post to Art film Industry.....

" Bollywood " ...The Hindi Film Industry of India..for 100 years it has been entertaining us..Sometimes made us sad,sometimes made us happy,sometimes made us feared and sometimes made us to move our legs with hit songs and bundled up with all kind of emotions for years and years..In different eras we could see different stars ....  Superstars,Megastars and Jewels of Bollywood ... whether in Acting,Dancing or Music field .. Bollywood is the place where Talent matters most.... oops!!! or Talent mattered most ...I really feel whether Talent is the only key to have success in Bollywood now-a-days ????

I wonder and start thinking when anyone asks me " who is your favorite actress now ?? "... though I don't take much time to think about the actors as from childhood have been watching the Khan era with few Kumars,Shettys and Khannas..These Bollywood heroes are static in their own way..But when it comes to actress or so called heroines .... I really take time to think because maximum I can find "Model Turned Actresses".... except few names in recent era like Vidya Balan ... As I told already with heroes and actors I don't find any issues as they are the same for last 15-20 years....But the actresses who are actually getting hypes and roles in the recent movies , do they have any of the proper talent which are needed ?? They have only one skill that is to show off their beach bodies and having a sexy seductive look throughout the whole cinema ... when that's time to deliver the dialogue and to give the proper expression for a particular scene that's all !!! Charm goes away somewhere to find movie's charm itself ...

From Zeenat Aman to Priyanka Chopra there have been many Beauty Queens who actually proved themselves by acquiring all the needed skills to stand in Bollywood ...  But as the days are moving on.. the more blunders are happening to Bollywood.. Unnecessary Hype and Fame are given to the wrong personalities ... Beauty and Sex appeal is what matter most in Bollywood when to select heroines... Whether it is Katrina,Deepika or any other new comers ... Though Deepika is doing better from before in the recent movies..But Katrina always amazes me ... How can some one be so Hit without having the proper acting skills and with having a dull expression keeping on face ??? and the time she dances...though she is trying her level best but still .... for how long we the audience have to tolerate those nonsense grooves and moves ??? Pandit Birju Maharaj's comment on Chikni Chameli was 100% correct.."Katrina ko nachna nahi ata,hilana ata hain " ..She just does blunder ... so the Barbie Doll image is working more .. ??? Another Hype is recently for Sunny Leon ..... I really don't understand Why Media is grooving with the name Sunny Leon ??? What  did she do that she easily got a chance to make a debut in Bollywood ??? So her talent is the porn star image ?? and another shocking scene was from the movie Rockstar.. Nargis Fakhri..Biggest blunder..While watching that fantastic movie was thinking that I could have done much better than her..Ranveer's emotion and the blinks on her eyes..uncountable..Just a kingfisher calender act and a big opportunity in Bollywood..Like this all  the models are simply gathering in Bollywood and doing the films where we can't even feel any emotions and get no way rather than bearing it throughout .... 

When I look back to Old Hindi Movies I can see the real divas,the real Queens of Bollywood .. Talent was the main factor to get a small role in Hindi Films...If I start penning those names of successful heroines really I will be tired enough .. From Nargis,Madhubala,Nutan,Vyajayantimala Bali,Wahida Rahman,Asha Parekh,Sharmila Tagore,Hema Malini,Jaya Bhaduri,Rekha and etc etc etc... really not able to write all the names at all.. Everyone at that time portrayed all the characters so uniquely that the audience of our age also don't get boredom to watch those movies..and in recent era Sridevi,Meenaxi,And at last Madhuri Dixit stood themselves with only Talent ...and common thing was the longitivity of their filmy career..But unfortunately in today's era like a "thandi hawa ka jhoka" few actresses arise and they just get invisible after sometimes only.. for me the last filmy Diva in Bollywood was Madhuri Dixit  .. She was just 10 on 10 ... What an expression,what a dance and acting also ... The real Diva ... 

" Old is Gold "....true for our generation..We can say yes old is really gold..But I do wonder whether our next generation will be able to say  the same for this Bollywood filmy era ??? Time will say...

                                                                                                                         ©Debarati Datta

Love Marriage or Arranged Marriage

                                                      Love Marriage or Arranged Marriage


Marriage ... A rituals to live with your life partner,love,better half and your soul mate..These terms are often we get in dictionary and on net ... But the thing is how to find it in real life ??? By doing Love marriage or Arranged marriage ?? This topic is just so perfect for debate and surely can cross the time siren too ... In this case experience matters most I guess ... Experienced one can give the proper ray of light into this matter.. Whether it is love marriage or arranged one ...So here I am going to portrait on my point of view.

The  features of  both the marriages are stated below....

Love marriage :  1) Bride and Groom doesn't have any expectations from each other before marriage 
                               as they see each other for long time or a very long time.
     
                           2) Bride -Groom plan everything then both parents meet .. That's the time for high 
                                peak of  tension

                           3) No scene to compromise from both sides as they know each other well and use to     
                              be in love from before and  then plan to marry.

                          4) Parental demands are not to be given much importance.

                          
Arranged marriage :  1) Bride and Groom both have huge expected criterias about their better    
                                       half before marriage..such as he/she must be like this,must have this or that 
                                       habit and blah blah blah !!!

                                  2)Families and parents plan everything first and then bride and groom meet 
                                     with some huge formalities.
                             
                                  3)Compromise and Adjustments are the main two keys in arranged marriage.

                                  4)Family demands play a pivotal role in arranged marriage..

This was just a rough sketch of the scenario which we see actually,basically I feel.But I think any relationship must have few responsibilities and so in marriages also ... The topic is love marriage or arranged marriage ... But both the marriages can be successful if both partners value each other's emotions,morals and respect their particulars..Understanding is the primary key to this relationship..and the secondary one is compromising.. Both the persons need to compromise...with one hand clap does not sound well .. 

What I feel personally is ... When you love someone and plan to marry with that person,expectations,hopes and wishes touch the sky ..  gradually  it gets more  .. and practically post- marriage responsibilities are really more than pre-marriage responsibilities..If any partner fails to understand that then misunderstandings arise..and changes into dark clouds..and then rains..Girls always like to have attention care from their husband,if love marriage then definitely more.. but Guys who fails to understand this and fails to give the same to their partner..misunderstanding comes..Guys on the other hand want liberty and space ... when girlfriends turned  wives ask for some attention,guys get themselves loosing the space and all liberty... and thus we can see some un successful love marriages...But it really doesn't mean that love marriages do not do well..They do of course.. People who adjusts with the situations and cope up with all the difficulties they do prove that love marriages do success..

On the other hand when to say about arranged marriages ... the concept is quite strange to live with someone for whole life who you don't even know and the pre marriage rituals whether from meeting the alliance to few match mixing game ...really kind of  formal and awkward too from few point of view. ... But .. practically arranged marriages do get more successful than love marriages..I have read once that in one recent survey it has been seen that arranged marriages are more successful than love marriages..means less divorce prone. But obviously not with any mismatch....In arranged marriage both the people get to know each other gradually.. Here family plays very important role .... And Love ?? obviously love happens in arranged marriage... but after marriage... In India arranged marriages are one kind of tradition though now changing a bit..But we all have seen our parents,relatives and our ancestors too to have lived happily  in arranged marriage... Yes arranged marriage do take time for both to know and to get comfortable with..But love happens... As there are no need to be any kind of Love related expectations and wishes ... when any one does so...other feels overwhelmed...and that's how love grows ... 

So in short....

Love marriage ----  Love and then marriage..
Arranged marriage ---- Marriage and then love..
&
about success in marriage ...understanding,compromising,adjusting and at last but not the least Love Care and Luck matter most...

                                                                                                                            © Debarati Datta

Life without MY PC

  Life without MY PC

This had been always a nightmare for me... and at last it happened to me in last week.. For past few days I have been leading a PC-less life... Already in my past blogs I had mentioned that I am a Internet,Computer Freak ... I spend most of the times in front of computer only..Television must have been sad for a long time.. In office I sit in front of PC ... do my stuffs and after office hours when I am in home also I do crazypantis with my desktop..... 

But the hell happened in last week when I could see my both hard drives to get damaged one by one and I just could not do anything rather than watching it ...  after that all the hardware related problems started and still is going on.. It is under it's medication though it hasn't gone to hospital but soon it will go... My hard drives were my kids ... had set up and stored such a size of memory which I have lost permanently.... (so always have a back up) which I didn't do for half of the stuffs .... The pain,the sorrow which I am feeling can't be expressed... Writing is such a thing which makes me feel "Yes !!! tell me . I am there with you " type thoughts.... so expressing ...

But I wonder ...while consoling myself was thinking about the early life... my childhood.... or before era.... We are becoming so much dependent on gadgets and electronics that without that particular life is becoming miserable... Just like the emotions which I am feeling now... I am feeling so helpless.. But the time when people didn't have these stuffs used to be cool and self dependent.... I am trying all the possible ways to console me .. as much as possible ...but ultimately ending up with a sad emo on my face.... Anyways Whatever happens,happens for good ..is the last line to console me... 

                                                                                                               ©Debarati Datta

Wanted Fair,Slim,Beautiful and Homely Girl !!!

                                                 Wanted Fair,Slim,Beautiful and homely Girl !!!

Last Sunday while reading newspaper simply started browsing my eyes over matrimony column .. just to have a lil fun .... the strange thing which is hard to believe was common criteria of selecting a bride... In Bride's section maximum I could see was " Wanted Fair,Slim,Beautiful and Homely girl "
.Sometimes the beautiful was coming as " very beautiful " too .. really quite weird for me... In this 21st century if girls are to be judged by her complexion and beauty,really nothing to say .. 

All respected parents of the groom are willing to have "Chand sa roshan chehra" for their son,it doesn't matter how he looks or what does he do... Now India is country where average complexion is "wheatish" .. and this is also known fact to everyone..But at marriage time only Fair beautiful ladies are prioritized. Weird... !!! another misconception among maximum Indians is that beautiful girl must have to be Fair..if dark then she can not be called as beautiful.. What the hell is this ??? What the mentality is ?????? if it is so then better all respected parents go to Western Countries and search for your "nayee navili dulhan" for your "ladla beta".. just kidding... I have seen one of my neighbourial sister's case..she was of dark complexion and was having sharp features and attractive eyes.. she was talented working modern girl..When she met with her boyfriend's mother,she got rejected just because she was dark.. Poor the lady is for having this kind of mentality... and I am sure Guys whoever is reading this blog must be getting reminded by some of the cases like this....

Another important criteria is to have homely nature.. now what is the criteria of being a typical homely girl ?? I guess the girl who is capable to manage home,knows to deal with family and knows to do all home related works and stuffs ... right ??? but does that mean to be shy and too much girly type ??? " sati savitri type " ??? But in shaadi ka market it is so ... 

Really weird .. !!! frankly speaking it's kind of terror for me... I don't know what phase I will be going through when I will participate in this race ??? LOL ....just kidding .. But it's sad to see this kind of situation in this modern era.. where looks and complexion still matters for people ...

                                                                                                              © Debarati Datta

Reservation ... Stop it Please

                                          Caste Reservation ... Stop it Please

                                                                            ............. Just expressing my view towards the caste reservation system in India as a democratic citizen.Not to hurt anyone intentionally.

Going to write about one of the most controversial topic of India...about the caste Reservation system..It started from 26th November,1949 ... I mean the constitution was adopted..The constitution text was prepared by Dr.B.R Ambedkar who was the victim of being accused with untouchabilty at that time...For that he made that law of reservation only for SC/ST people .. But that was 1949 ..Scenario was something else.And now its 2012 .. Scenario has changed totally..At that time SC/ST people used to suffer from getting the golden opportunities and now GENERAL candidates do the same.. Caste discrimination .... the inequalities... I just hate it..not only me I guess there are so many people around who are also having the same thoughts and  opinions.

What was the need of Reservation ?? It was to help those people who was helpless,didn't have any strong background and financial support to study,those who were being accused of untouchabiltiy and those who belonged to minority..It was the then time.. But now in India RESERVATION stands for Caste discrimination and it is just the another way to make a rich ....richer.... 

I won't say reservation is bad.Reservation should be their for them who are poor,don't have the financial status to have their food,education not for the " aam aadmi " who are already employed in Govt.Sectors and getting much per annum.Before giving the opportunities Govt should  really check the financial status of any family.Only people under Below Poverty Level should be getting the reservation quota.

                              

                                                 

It's very sad to see that in every field whether it is education,financial,or any kind of career related issues we can see this discrimination...For General it is one kind of rule and for SC/ST/OBC quota it's too different....Any Govt.Competitive Exams  Quota claims to pay only 10% of the actual amount whereas General pays 100% ..cut offs are different from General..definitely much lesser. Special coaching classes for these exams are arranged for free but only for SC/ST quota ...  In schools,colleges the admission quotas are available where their cut off marks use to be very less in compare to General ... Now if this is the system ...Where is Quality ?? What is Merit ?? What is Talent ??? 

India is the only country where talents get ignored due to quotas... For which quality is degrading day by day ... In Govt.Sectors we can see the same.Tradition wise father -> their kids -> and so on are getting jobs easily .. Having minimum percentage in exams but  still getting these much advantages . These are really depressing .. 

One Scenario :

Two persons..One is General,Other SC/ST ..General scored  23 in some Govt exams whereas cutoff was 24 ...could not qualify...But the SC/ST ... got 21 and qualified .. how ?? Cut off was 21 only..

What will you say about this ??? Reservation started before 63 years ago..Then the scenario was something else.Backward and minor communities were really behind than the normal society ... But now ?? this is 2012... in these 63 years SC/ST people are not getting ignored and not getting insulted too ... then Why is INEQUALITY ???? India should bring the equality among all the people..everything should have done in merit and talent basis .. No discrimination ... No partiality..

But really doubtful this case is .. Don't know whether this EQUALITY is going to come or not ?? 

                                                                                                                        © Debarati Datta

What's REAL in Reality Shows ??

                                                                               ------   my blog is not meant to hurt someone or not to blame any channel..it's just my own opinion.

I think it was 2001 when in India we started watching the reality shows ..I am not considering KBC as it was kind of game show rather than any talent hunt. Reality show which means everything in show which gets aired on is Real..Definitely people liked it.Till then public was there only to watch as audience..But reality shows are some kinds of shows where public demand matters..It was channel V who launched their first show "Channel V Pop stars" a talent hunt show for forming a band..that's too only for girls.. I was a kid then..The idea concept everything was so attractive and innovative that I started liking and watching it..not only me I guess there are so many among the readers of my blog can still remember the show... that's the way VIVA formed and their album released.. then MTV roadies a different reality show which just blew the mind of  Youths and still now blowing ... no doubt regarding that... And then time by time we could see the shows which started the unique voting system .... Audience poll.. it means we will spend money and give as many votes as per wish for any contestant to win the show.the trend was super duper Hit.Zee Cinema Cine stars was the first show to launch this unique poll system .It was  First cine talent  hunt show.Then the renaissance Indian Idol ...OMG !!! the most popular show in trend the then time. Come on !!! who didn't vote via mobile ?? Few years ago also we could count the numbers of the shows to be seen... NOW ???? is it possible ?? In each and every region,every corner of India in all channels we can see different reality shows,talent hunt shows ... Days are passing by... channel crew members are inventing new ideas too ... and making new shows ...  Talent hunt for singing and dancing was there already.Now cooking , stealing girlfriends,parents ,fighting,breaking ups  and many more are also in list... and we viewers are also watching it,spending our time to see some pre made on screen fights,emotional moments,on screen marriages etc..and yes voting also..

But don't we miss the shows like "TVS Sare-ga-ma-pa","Meri Awaaz Suno","Boogie Woogie" ?? I do miss them so much...Those shows were so innocent,simple and deglamorous ... where no one could see any kind of  business motives .. no show offs... no big hoardings of some participants stating some pre written dialogues... We call these shows as reality shows.. But are they really REAL ??? or just to gain TRPs.... I really don't have idea ..Sometimes I think these all activities as Fake drama.. the fresh talents who are actually winning the shows are just getting lost within the sand of time.. that's very heart breaking. It's true that few people get the famed platform to show their talents which they might not be able to show anyway before...but that too  for sometimes... I guess... how many of you can remember all the winner names ?? I have forgotten most of the names...few can be remembered... it's not that I don' t watch any of the show .. I do watch... but at some point of moment I get them totally Fake.. everything is just so "No-REAL" type...

I don't know readers how did u feel about my post.. you may have got it quite harsh ... Again I am telling it was just my opinion.... no to hurt anyone.. [Apology]..reader's comments are highly welcome... Thank You.. ☺☺☺



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