Men , Women and their Demands

                                                Men , Women and their Demands ......

Very much controversial and much to think about .... I guess this is the only issue for which relationship breaks....Expectations..the only thing which comes in various ways...A woman expects much from her Man,if Man fails then relationship takes a different turn...and same for Men too
.... So the question is What do these two special creatures of God expect from each other ??

I am going to write on the basis of what I have seen in my life,my experience,and few incidents of my friend's life..

On the basis of  attraction , relation I am going to pen about the views of boys and gals.....

If a boy likes a girl.....

----- What does a boy do if he starts liking a girl madly ??? First he fails to stop staring at that girl consciously or unconsciously which helps that girl to understand that he is totally Fida on her..Men can't hide their emotions.What they feel they show it off ..means they can't control...

      What does a girl do if she gets to know that someone really likes her ??? She enjoys the matter.Though she doesn't really want to show it off...in few incidents she loves to use that boy too and at last when the boy asks a proposal she simply rejects...heart breaks...and few "Devdas"es take birth...


If a girl likes a boy....

------ She will try to hint the boy she likes without losing her dignity..she definitely won't show her craze for him...but yes she would love to give few indications...which sometimes guys do understand sometimes not..and heart break sounds come silently..A girl always would love to get the proposal but not to propose..If she loves someone also she wants that boy to propose first.... that's typical girl's attitude..But yes few are still exceptions... 



What do Men think about Girls ???


 Men think that girls are born dumb... It's kind of Male Ego too...if his lady is too intelligent also,he will surely try to show her as dumb and stupid...I Don't get this point actually....they pretend girls as the biggest mistake of God for few annoying features .. and yes they think Women as root cause of any kind of problem.... Though without Women they can't survive... but still they think these .... Very common...


What do Women think about Guys???

Now Women have a severe nightmare of loosing her man.. the common doubt and fear about his character..Women think always that Men are Flirt by nature...which they can't digest..If the guy is not fond of some other girl also,she will try to prove with every possible ways that he is not loving her more and mingling with some one else..... Now that's creepy....this doubtful nature of women kind really suffers a relationship...

                        


Definition of Love according to Men and Women ...

Love .... Men define love more physically than Women do...For them love can be expressed more physically than emotionally...which Girls do feel quite weird and misunderstandings arise...on the other hand ..Women love emotionally rather than loving to get much closer with  the boy she loves...She loves cuddly,cute love stories,gifts,romantic dinners to show her love to her partners...She expects the same too from him......But these all things turn into stupidity for boys... Men get them really bad.. Gifts,cards,pampering and all are the true turn offs for Guys... So the word expectations kill the feelings.... Alas. !!! really both the creatures are from different planet... a Woman wants to be treated like a princess by her Man and a Man wants to be treated like a kid by her partner... Women tries to find all the qualities which their father has in Men and Men try to find the features which their mother has in Women... So different..

But those who can cope up with all these demands and nature of each other , can have a better relationship.... With one hand clap do not sound... From both sides the proper sacrifices,compromises are to be done.. And yes those who says.. "We should not expect" are wrong..Because if  anyone is in love,expectations come automatically and  for both Men and Women those expectations should be valued properly to keep a relationship healthy...

                        

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